#38rrific To Share | A Birthday Blog+Thank You Message| #MajLife2020

Officially 38.
.. Nearly Four Decades.

As I have gotten older (feeling ko lang palagi 20 pa Lang ako.. Hihi..)
I have realized that the true gifts in this life are not ones that you can put a price tag on.
Not even a certain brand name something that you wear.
Not a place you get to go.
Not a big fancy sparkling you hold in your hands.
It's YOU, it's the Every Moment you got to spend it with Loved Ones.
And that's How I always want my Birthday to celebrate.
Simple.
but Contented & HAPPY.

38 years of existence and reflecting it.

I am proud PROBINSYANA. 
Proud Aklanon.

With that 38 years,
Napaisip ako e.. " Sabi nga di ba, YOU'RE not getting any younger.."

Moved here in Makati at year 2009 to work.

First time to be away with family. Hesitant at first, siyempre bago to sakin.

I have to learned things on my own. 

and Yes, my INDEPENDENT moment i have been waiting for. (pero 27 nako nito.. LONG Story, Strict Parent..and all that.)

Been Broken. (dumaan din naman ako sa phase na yan..)

but YES, those things and those people made me the strongest.

Been Judged. Been Fooled.

Giving up is never an Option. Palagi ko iniisip..simple lang to problems ko compare to those people i have read.. Kumbaga..sample pa lang to. Faith is my company.
"Prayer changes things."

God is Good, He really listens.

Answered prayer. i Met my Soulmate.
I got married at 31 and have my first born at 32,

Every year you will get to learned, maybe Not everything but those some of the things you encounter along the way:

Sharing #38rrific Things:

** Saying SORRY. Always swallow your pride to say you’re sorry. It won't make you a Less person.

** Taking things Slow. Conservative man ako, as they say, 
It's a choice. I am a late bloomer 😊 I had my eldest at 32 and its worth it.

** The moment is all there is. Lahat ng worries and plans natin about the future, minsan nga meron pa replaying moments with what happened in the past, it’s all in our heads, and that keep us away from living fully. 
Let go of all that, and just focus on what you’re doing, right at this moment. In this way, makikita natin what's really in store for us.

** I wasted a lot of energy when I was younger worrying about being almost PERFECT.

It’s way more fun to forget about that, and just be yourself.

** Mistakes are the best way to learn. Don’t be afraid to make them. Admit that we also makes a mistakes. NOBODY is Perfect. What we need to know is that, you might fail but We should know How to accept it, get up and and make it right. Try not to repeat the same ones again. I Believe in Second Changes.

** What are we afraid of? FAILURES. tama?

Failures are the stepping stones to success. Without failure, we’ll never learn how to succeed. Pede naman sometimes try to fail, instead of trying to avoid failure dahil takot nga tayo.

** Let go of expectations. When you have expectations of something — a person, an experience, a job — you put it hanging up that has little to do with reality.

You set of the thing (or person) and then try to fit the reality into this ideal ones that we want, and that leads to disappointment. Instead, try to experience reality as it is, appreciate it for what it is, and be happy that it is.

** It's Better to Give than to receive. (tuwing Christmas lang ba to?hehehe) Giving is so much better than getting. Give with no expectation of getting something in return, and it becomes a more pure and honest act. Oftentimes, we give something and expect to get in return — at least get some gratitude or recognition for our efforts. Try to let go of that need, and just give.

** Being a First time Mom, i have to know things.. one of those things, When she asks for your attention, always grant it. But, i am working, sometimes i feel guilty that i have that limited time.. go to work at 8 o'clock in the morning and comes home..sometimes late if work has to stay long.

when your tired, mainit na ulo ko..but realizing.. instead of being annoyed at that, We have to be grateful for the reminder to SPEND TIME with our family.

** No one ever knows what we are doing as parents. paano nga ba? we try to imitate and hoping we’re getting it right. minsan gusto natin in details pa, and sadly, miss out on the fun. nakalimutan natin, naging bata din naman tayo.. i am 38, and i have Two kids Now.. at mga bata pa sila. Kids must to show them they’re loved, to enjoy the moments We can with them, to show them life is fun, and stay out of the way of them becoming the amazing people they’re going to become. That they already ARE.

** Gratitude is one of the best ways to find contentment? do we Agree?

We are often discontent in our lives, desire more, because we don’t realize how much we have. Instead of focusing on what you don’t have, be grateful for the amazing gifts you’ve been given- of loved ones and simple pleasures, of health and even of Simple things in our plate. Be grateful every day.

** Learn about empathy. minsan, we judge people on too little information.

We must try to understand what they do instead, put ourselves in their shoes, Iba iba tayo ng pinagdadaanan. Life becomes much better if you learn to understand.

** Create. The world is full of distractions, but very few are as important as it is.

for me, being able to inspire people, that's the creation you can perfectly make.

** Take a BREAK. We all need that, it's either your working, or just Home..everyone needs a time to Think...to breathe. Take a walk if you have too. And you'll see.. 😊 

38 years of existence.. and counting.

above all, we must never forget How LOVE works.

Love comes in many flavors. I love my KIDS, completely and more than I can ever fully understand. I love them each in different way.
I Love my Husband in every imperfection I Know. I Love my Small Family with every second of it. 

I am officially 38 Today. 

definitely have a lot left to learn.

Life has many lessons left to teach me, and I’m looking forward to them all.


Thank you for taking a little time to read my blog.

𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗧𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗸 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 sent me Text Messages, PM/DM in Facebook and Instagram, posted Greetings in my Feed, even sent IG Stories. 
Thank you, you never missed to Greet us together with my Twin Sister. 
𝗜 𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗿𝗲𝗰𝗶𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 ONE 𝗼𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂. 😘

This is also one of those reason why I still look Young. 
I am so lucky to be sorrounded with my Loving Family, Friends, Online Friends that even If haven't met yet still greeted (so touching..)
God Bless Everyone.
Love all of You. 


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xoxo,
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